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Beyond the door/ There’s peace I’m sure/ And I know there’ll be no more/ Tears in heaven

May 25, 2011

Made a trip to Phnom Penh, Cambodia at the end of 2010. I’ve previously visited Siem Reap to see the famous Angkor Wat, as well as all the other magnificent ruins in the region, but never out of the touristy areas of that beautiful country plagued by so much sadness and horror.

We found time to see the Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum (it menas “Hill of the Poisonous Trees”). In August 1975, four months after having won the civil war, the Khmer Rouge turned what was formerly the Chao Ponhea Yat High School into a prison and interrogation center from hell. It was basically a torture house, with classrooms formerly used for learning converted into tiny torture and prison chambers, electrified barbed wire encircling the complex, and iron bars and barbed wire covering windows to prevent escape.

The structure of the buidling reminded me of the Primary schools of old that we used to have in Singapore, although the ‘exhibits’ (it seems disrespectful almost, to reduce them to being called that, when the lives of so many innocent were lost within those walls…) within told an entirely different story. The place held between 1000 – 1500 inmates at any one time, with an estimated 17000 people (real figures are unknown; one can only morbidly imagine how many more were killed) being imprisoned there between 1975 to 1979.

It was a really disturbing visit, especially for one with a very visual and vivid imagination such as myself. Prisoners and their families (inmates were tortured till they gave the names of family members; the Khmer Rouge thought it necessary to get rid of suspects’ entire familes) were locked up in tiny cells smaller than your average public washroom cubicle.

They were also tortured with various instruments, as the one below. This was mostly to coerce them into giving names of family members and associates, after which these people in turn woule be arrested and brought there, to suffer the same treatment.

I find it both appalling and very sad that people (always referred to as a group, the Khmer Rouge were after all people as well, with family members and loved ones, same as all of us) spent so much time thinking up ways to inflict maximum pain on their fellow men.

On to happier things; the primary purpose for our travel to Phnom Penh was to visit a children’s home there. The kids were lovely; we taught them to play zero point; they taught us so much more.

The quiet boy above is a talented hairstylist! He does the girls’ hair; and sometimes comes up with creative looks such as the one on the girl below.

To thank us, the children put up a little performance for us. The girls were all graceful and lovely, performing a traditional Cambodian dance for us, while the boys put up an energetic little monkey dance.

There is a sadness though. The place is actually an orphanage for HIV positive children. All of them take a cocktail of pills each day to keep their bodies stable. They know that they are unwell (there are so many of them that they had to be told how important it is to take their medication each day without a fuss) and yet you would never have known it watching them laugh and play, carefree as only children can be.

There’s a lesson learnt; during our day off, we took time out to act like children too!

And of course, we savoured the delicious local food.

And some more touristy, but no less delicious fare.

Yes, please indulge my fondness for bear-shaped rice and pretty table additions.

It was the annual Water Festival (Bon Om Tuk in Khmer) in Phnom Penh while we were there. Bon Om Tuk is the largest festival in the Cambodian calander, which celebrates the end of the rainy season, the start of the fishing season, and also the unique natural phenomenon – the flow of the Tonle Sap river changing direction. Despite having been warned by some locals about how crowded it would be (the festival is estimated to attract around a third of the country’s 14 million population each year to Phnom Penh), a few of us decided to brave it for the experience.

It started out fun; the place was a veritable carnival, with stalls offering food, games of chance and fair rides. We tried to take a tuk tuk to the river, but the place was so jammed and congested with people, cars, tuk tuks and bikes, we decided to jump off and walk the rest of the way.

A simple game of chance; for a fee, you get three tries to throw the basin such that it completely covers a drink of your choice. Looks and sounds easy, but not when the basin and drink are practically the same size!

We passed by a stall peddling snacks like beatles, crickets, spiders and some slimy-looking creatures! The bunch of us started egging each other on to try the stuff. I must admit I was one of the chickens (hmmm…that’s an ironic choice of word in this context, if you think about it!) who didn’t have the guts to have a taste, but well done, I say, to R and M, who gamely popped some of the stuff in their mouths!

But as we drew nearer the water, we began to sense something was wrong.

The folks in front of us, who before were also slowly making their way to the river’s edge, were stopped by some stall owners. From the body language, we could tell they were warning them not to proceed any further. We stopped as well, and saw that people were streaming away from the river, in the opposite direction from where the music and action was.

Soon, the police arrived and told us all to go back; as we walked back, the scene was one of confusion. Not being able to speak the language, and in an area with the vast majority of the people being local and unable to speak English, we had no choice but to follow the rest of the crowd, and turn back. Just like the flow of the Tonle Sap river, we changed direction.

Shortly after, the police shouted at the crowd to clear the road at the huge roundabout.

It was to make way for ambulances. That was when we realised that something really serious had happened.

What we saw next was extremely harrowing; lorries and pick-ups zoomed out of the same area by the river, and in them were people, some covered in blood, some looked like dead bodies.

We made our way back as quickly as we could, although slowed down amidst the throngs of people trying to do the same thing. Back at our hotel, we saw reports on the stampede at the Water Festival.

The death toll from the incident is an estimated 353 people, with an upwards of more than 700 injured, some severely so. The verdict as to the cause is still not entirely clear.

According to one witness, ”too many people on the bridge and…both ends were pushing. This caused a sudden panic. The pushing caused those in the middle to fall to the ground, then [get] crushed.” Apparently, while trying to get away from the stampede, he said that people pulled down electrical wires, causing more people to die of electrocution. Doctors treating patients who were injured in the crush confirmed this, saying that electrocution and suffocation were the primary causes of death among the casualties.

A journalist from The Phnom Penh Post said that the stampede had occurred due to police forces firing a water cannon into people on the bridge in an attempt to force them to move off the bridge after it began swaying, which had triggered panic among those on it.

Information Minister Khieu Kanharith said that the stampede began when panic broke out after several people fell unconscious on the crowded island.

All in all, something (whether the firing of a water cannon, the swaying of the bridge, people fainting or simply far too many people crowded on the bridge) caused mayhem among the people, and many were crushed in the mass hysteria.

Our hearts and prayers go out to the people of Cambodia.


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I hear Jerusalem bells a-ringing/ Roman Cavalry choirs are singing

May 17, 2011

Life has been super crazy-busy of late, and it really has been quite awhile since I last updated this space! Realise I still have many pictures and stories to share, so pardon the slightly dated entries that follow this one!

This post, for example, is long overdue; the pictures are actually from over a year ago! However, while we are still in the joyous Easter season, I thought I’d share a quick one on what happened last Easter.

A good friend decided to join the Catholic family, and we were (and still are!) so happy for her! It did however mean attending the rather lengthy Easter Vigil…I don’t think I’ve ever attended the entire mass like that my entire Catholic life (and mind you, I was baptised at birth, haha!).

Thank goodness for certain slightly ‘auntie’ friends (heh!) who advised going early to ensure a seat…it was packed to the rafters! Close to when mass was about to start, the lights in the church were all switched off. Prior to that, I had never seen the church that dark before. The place was lit entirely by the light of a few candles. The people holding those candles slowly went round, passing on the light. One by one, people passed the light along each pew, until every single person held a lit candle. The church got progressively brighter, until it was alight from the flames of hundreds of candles. My description does it no justice, so please try to imagine how it was…it was a most beautiful scene to behold, both literally as well as figuratively.

Congrats and welcome to L, and a happy, happy Easter to all!

It only takes a spark to get a fire going
And soon all those around can warm up in its glowing
That’s how it is with God’s love
Once you’ve experienced it, you spread His love to everyone,
You want to pass it on

What a wondrous time is spring, when all the trees are budding
The birds begin to sing, the flowers start their blooming
That’s how it is with God’s love
Once you’ve experienced it, you want to sing
It’s fresh like spring, you want to pass it on

I wish for you my friend, this happiness that I’ve found
You can depend on Him, it matters not where you’re bound
I’ll shout it from the mountain top
I want the world to know, the Lord of love has come to me,
I want to pass it on


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One night in Bangkok and the world’s your oyster

March 21, 2011

Before Krabi, I squeezed in a quick trip to my favourite Asian city (other than our dear little lion city, of course!) with the buddies. I just realised that I head down to Bangkok at least once a year; and I think I’ve been doing that since I was 17. I see the changes as I visit every year, and one that stands out for me is that there are now lovely walkways, much like a super-extended, sheltered, overhead bridge, linking major areas and malls (Singapore should have stuff like that for people like me who prefer to walk!). I love the sights, sounds, smells and food(!) of the city, and these things keep me coming back.

My favourite Bangkok breakfast. Simple, spicy, and super satisfying.

It was Deepavali the time we were there. After dinner we saw fireworks coming from one of the alleys. An Indian family who owned a shop along that lane was out celebrating; they had all kinds of fun things! Fireworks that rocketed around the place; others that shot a ‘waterfall’ of pretty sparks. They were so hospitable and inviting, not only urging us to join in the fun, but also offering us sweets and drinks. We stayed there for quite a while, enjoying the show and playing with the kids. Thank you for making our time there extra special, and happy Diwali, truly.

Couldn’t resist a ‘shoe shot’, especially when the three of us had on similar ones!

Trying on rings and other pretty things…

So silly, so superfluous, but so cute! Rice just tastes that much better when it comes shaped like a teddy bear.

Happy and talking a little too much by this point. Thank you to my dearest, dearest friends for always being there for me. =)

Saw this in the middle of Chatuchak – the Thai version of the Wonder Girls. I tried to get myself recruited, but I was told not having two left feet was a basic requirement. Ah well.

A and B brought me out to an authentic Thai disco (you must be local and know someone to get in, apparently). The food that came with our drinks was super shiok! Fatty pork belly, char-grilled (satay-style) and drenched in a tasty, sweet-savoury garlic sauce.

Trying for a netball trip in May – hope it happens!


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Bodies in the sand/ Tropical drink melting in your hand

March 7, 2011

Near the end of 2010, I was fortunate enough to be flown to Krabi for a shoot for Designare magazine. We stayed at the beautiful Rayavadee resort, and were thoroughly pampered by the excelent service and stellar cuisine!

Pictures galore, so I’ll let them do most of the talking for this post…

S and G’s tips on improving your profile – cover the bits you don’t like! Haha!

I love the alldressedup clothes I wore on the shoot, and this frock was my favourite. Love the gorgeous print!

Monkeys on the roof…

And red sails in the sunset.

The lovely villa which I had all to myself, heh.

Contemporary takes on classic Thai food…delish!

It wasn’t all play and no work, ok!

The very cute husband and wife photography team!

The full team!

I got dragged into an impromptu cooking class during our break!

I’ve such a weakness for interesting cutlery…especially of the heavy-duty, super ‘man’ variety (read: weighty and strong!).

Spa time!

Yes, indulging my weakness for quirky little details. Such a darling tap!

Breaks were spent lying in the sun reading…

And climbing the limestone cliffs…

What a trip! Look out for the next issue of Designare!


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Pull out the stopper! Let’s have a whopper!/ But get me to the church on time

January 5, 2011

The end of 2010 was crazy! I’ve so much to update, I hardly know where to begin! There have been trips, for work and for play; concerts; birthdays; festivals; Christmas; New Year…and weddings galore! Another good friend gets hitched this weekend, so I thought I’d best start by writing about J & J’s wedding that happened awhile back.

There was the Chinese ‘gatecrash’, and it started out with us ‘sisters’ demanding as much moolah (amongst other tasks!) as possible from the very sporting boys.

S was appointed official banker for the morning!

We had tons of fun, and many, many laughs. Mostly at the guys’ expense!

And there were so many of them too! I have never seen a wedding with quite as many ‘brothers’ before. To protect their dignity (and your eyes’, dear readers!) I’ll not post the pictures of just what we made them go through before they could get their groom through the door…

 

We were grossly outnumbered. But we still kicked ass.

And though the day bit was such a lark, the night really rocked. Mostly due to the super boisterous, merry bunch at our table. Drinks flowed, and antics abound!

 

Till the next one! Looking forward to A and W’s wedding this Saturday!


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I could have danced all night!/ And still have begged for more

December 9, 2010

It’s just a few days to the 11th of December, and I’m all geared up for the beach party of the year! I remember the first Zoukout; my first Zoukout. It was the day before my History paper in Junior College! I hesitated about going, but just for a moment, before I decided that I’d mug throughout the day (and the week leading up to it!) and then thoroughly enjoy myself at the very first major beach party in Singapore. And what a party it was!

I love the idea of dancing under the stars; all the better if there’s a superb lineup to dance to!

This year, I’m (predictably, but I don’t care!) super looking forward to Tiesto and David Guetta.

See you at the party!


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Music fills with starlight

November 16, 2010

I know, I haven’t posted in ages! It’s been a very busy time, and I’ve tons to share, so will try to play catch up as much as possible!

It was Mid-Autumn Festival (I’m using the ‘proper’ term, but I actually prefer referring to it as Lantern Festival or Mooncake Festival!) a couple of months ago, and my friends and I made a real night of it, with lanterns, sparklers…we basically ran around the park like a bunch of overgrown kids. SO much fun though!

Our pretty lanterns…we started the night pretty civilised…

But then we started playing at the playground and all hell broke loose!

What a night! Till next year!


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But you’ll look sweet upon the seat/ Of a bicycle built for two

October 4, 2010

A couple of weeks ago, my friends and I made a trip down to Pulau Ubin as part of a celebration for one of the girls. It was such a lovely, sun-drenched day, perfect for an idyllic day out. It’s been years (10 years, to be exact!) since I’ve been back to Ubin; work and life has been so hectic the past few years, and I’ve never found or made the time to come. But we got a group (of 10!) down, and the lot of us had such a good (and healthy!) time.

Caught a boat from Changi Ferry Terminal, and off we went!

What we found changed was that Ubin is (slightly) less “untouched” now; the paths are less wild, and there are areas that even look suspiciously landscaped. It is most apparent when you first get off the boat – a roaring bicycle rental trade is going on! We took awhile to decide on which stall and what bike to get…some of our friends got tandem bikes, which reminded me of the old song we learned in school…

 

Met a few of our non-human friends on our little journey!

And there were all these strange, random signs along the way too, I just had to share them.

Isn’t it just gorgeous?

I didn’t get a bicycle built for two!

Under the boardwalk/ Down by the sea

We returned back before the sun set. I had such a lovely time. Till the next!


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I’m on the nightrain/ Bottoms up/ I’m on the nightrain/ Fill my cup

September 16, 2010

To Morton’s, after such a long time! Always a joy catching up with and hanging out with old friends (double meaning here, tee hee!). I love a well-made martini; shaken, not stirred, please! =p

I’ve also found that that the number of martinis consumed is directly proportionate to the level of silliness and fun. Haha!


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We got no troubles/ Life is the bubbles/ Under the sea

September 9, 2010

There’s always a bumper crop of birthdays in August, including many of my nearest and dearest. (The mother, the brother, many good friends…) I don’t know if it’s just that there are indeed many more births in August than in any other month; (a good friend of mine calls it the “magic of the Christmas season”; go figure! ;p) or that as an Aries, I attract fellow fire signs (all you Leos!); fact is, it’s been a month of feasting and celebrating with friends and family, and I love it!

Here’s a small entry on a dear old friend’s (old in more ways than one, accept it, dude!) little birthday party. Just a note. The lot of us are not just big eaters, we love our food, and are real greedy. We ended up ordering way more than we should have, and even then, thank goodness for M who stopped us from ordering an extra main course on top of the one each of us ordered!

We went to Greenwood Fish Market; it was only when we got there that I realised I havent been back in such a long time. I forgot how fresh the seafood is! We had tons of appetizers; lobster bisque, shellfish bisque, crabcakes, swordfish sashimi, and grilled prawns. I only managed a picture of the prawns because the rest got devoured too quickly!

We argued over the mains (that’s why we wanted to order five for four people!); here are two of them. Pasta with crabmeat and mussels, and good ole’ fish and chips.

And if that wasn’t enough…three desserts!

Check out E’s fishy cuff links, specially donned in honor of the seafood-filled occasion!


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